Proverbs 19:11
The discretion of a man deferreth his anger; and it is his glory to pass over a transgression.
Cross-reference
Proverbs 12:16 says a prudent man covers shame—echoing the glory of overlooking an offense as taught here.
Proverbs 14:29 connects slowness to anger with great understanding—paralleling this proverb's discretion that defers anger.
Proverbs 15:18 contrasts a wrathful man with one slow to anger—illustrating the same principle of patience and peace.
Proverbs 16:32 reinforces that patience and self-control are greater than military might, echoing the glory in overlooking an offense.
Proverbs 17:14 uses the dam metaphor to show why dropping a matter prevents strife, aligning with overlooking offense.
Proverbs 20:3 says it is honorable to avoid strife, directly paralleling the glory of overlooking an offense.
Proverbs 25:21 goes beyond overlooking to actively helping an enemy, showing a more proactive love.
Genesis 50:15-21 shows Joseph overlooking his brothers' offense and forgiving them, a powerful example of this proverb.
Colossians 3:13 directly commands forgiveness and bearing with one another, mirroring the call to overlook offenses.
Ephesians 4:32 calls for forgiving one another as God forgave you, directly embodying the proverb's principle of overlooking offenses with a Christlike motive.
Romans 12:18-21 expands the proverb: not just overlook offenses but actively pursue peace, leave vengeance to God, and overcome evil with good.
Matthew 18:22 amplifies the proverb by commanding unlimited forgiveness—seventy-seven times—rather than simply overlooking an offense once.
James 1:19 advises being slow to anger, which is the same patience that leads to overlooking offenses.
In Matthew 18:21, Peter's question about forgiving a brother seven times directly applies the proverb's call to overlook offenses, probing its limits.
Matthew 5:44 commands loving enemies and praying for persecutors, expanding the wisdom of overlooking offenses.
Ephesians 4:26 allows anger without sin and warns against letting it linger, complementing the proverb's wisdom of being slow to anger and overlooking offenses.
Matthew 5:44 commands loving enemies and praying for persecutors, expanding the wisdom of overlooking offenses.
Colossians 3:12 lists patience as a virtue for God's chosen, expanding the wisdom context to Christian character.
Isaiah 48:9 depicts God deferring anger for his own glory—a divine parallel to the human restraint praised in the proverb, but with different motivation.