Proverbs 20:3

It is an honour for a man to cease from strife: but every fool will be meddling.

Cross-reference

Proverbs 14:17 notes that a quick-tempered man acts foolishly, mirroring the fool who quarrels in Proverbs 20:3.

Proverbs 14:29 praises slowness to anger, directly echoing the honor of ceasing from strife in Proverbs 20:3.

Proverbs 16:32 values self-control over conquest, reinforcing Proverbs 20:3’s point that avoiding strife is honorable.

Proverbs 17:14 advises stopping contention early, paralleling Proverbs 20:3’s call to cease from strife before it escalates.

Proverbs 18:6 says a fool's lips bring strife, directly illustrating the fool who quarrels.

Proverbs 19:11 commends overlooking offenses, a practical outworking of the honor in ceasing from strife in Proverbs 20:3.

Proverbs 25:8-10 warns against hasty contention, expanding Proverbs 20:3’s wisdom on the danger of meddling in disputes.

Proverbs 26:17 uses a dog-by-ears image to warn against meddling in quarrels — the same folly condemned in the main verse.

Proverbs 21:24 describes the arrogant scoffer; pride often fuels quarrels, linking to the fool's contentious behavior.

2 Kings 14:9 Historical context

In 2 Kings 14:9, Jehoash's parable of the thistle and cedar warns against picking a quarrel, embodying the fool's folly.

James 3:14 Parallel

James 3:14 identifies bitter jealousy and selfish ambition as root causes of strife, revealing the heart behind the fool's quarreling.

James 4:1 Parallel

James 4:1 directly asks what causes quarrels, answering that inner passions drive them, which aligns with the fool's nature.

2 Kings 14:10 Historical context

In 2 Kings 14:10, Jehoash advises Amaziah to stay home and avoid provoking trouble, echoing the honor of keeping aloof from strife.

2 Chronicles 25:17 Historical context

2 Chronicles 25:17 records Amaziah's challenge to battle, a clear example of a fool initiating a quarrel.

2 Chronicles 25:19 warns against pride leading to unnecessary conflict, reinforcing the wisdom of avoiding strife.

Ephesians 4:32 commands forgiveness, which enables the peace Proverbs 20:3 advocates — a practical Christian application.