Philemon 1:14

But without thy mind would I do nothing; that thy benefit should not be as it were of necessity, but willingly.

Cross-references

In Philemon 1:8, Paul says he could boldly command — contrasting with v14 where he chooses not to act without consent.

In Philemon 1:9, Paul appeals out of love rather than command — explaining why he wants Philemon's consent in v14.

1 Corinthians 9:17 explicitly contrasts willing vs. unwilling service — the exact distinction Paul applies to Philemon's choice.

2 Corinthians 1:24 shows Paul as a helper, not a master — the same attitude of not compelling Philemon's consent.

2 Corinthians 8:12 teaches that a willing mind is what God accepts — the same principle behind Paul's request for Philemon's consent.

2 Corinthians 9:7 directly says giving should not be of necessity but cheerful — the exact principle Paul applies to Philemon's goodness.

1 Peter 5:2 Parallel

1 Peter 5:3 warns against lording over others, urging willing leading — mirroring Paul's refusal to force Philemon's obedience.

1 Peter 5:3 Parallel

1 Peter 5:3 warns against lording over others, urging willing leading — mirroring Paul's refusal to force Philemon's obedience.

Acts 5:4 Parallel

In Acts 5:4, Peter stresses the land was under Ananias's control — the same free will principle Paul applies to giving.

In 2 Corinthians 8:3, Paul commends giving 'of their own accord' — the identical voluntary principle he wants from Philemon.

1 Chronicles 29:17 Related theme

1 Chronicles 29:17 highlights David's joyful willingness in giving — just as Paul values Philemon's voluntary, not forced, goodness.