Proverbs 27:10
Thine own friend, and thy father’s friend, forsake not; neither go into thy brother’s house in the day of thy calamity: for better is a neighbour that is near than a brother far off.
Cross-reference
In Proverbs 17:17, a friend's constant love and a brother's role in adversity reinforce the value of close relationships over distant ones.
In Proverbs 18:24, the 'friend who sticks closer than a brother' parallels the proverb's preference for a nearby neighbor over a distant brother.
In Proverbs 19:7, the poor are abandoned by brothers and friends — the opposite of the loyalty commanded in Proverbs 27:10.
2 Samuel 21:7 explains David spared Mephibosheth because of his covenant with Jonathan, a father's friend, directly illustrating Proverbs 27:10's principle.
1 Kings 12:6 shows Rehoboam rejecting the counsel of his father's old men, the opposite of Proverbs 27:10's command to not forsake a father's friend. Contrast leads to disaster.
In 2 Chronicles 24:22, Joash forsakes the son of Jehoiada his father's friend — a tragic violation of the loyalty Proverbs commands.
In Job 6:21-23, Job's friends desert him in his calamity — a direct violation of the wise counsel to hold onto nearby friends.
In Luke 10:30-37, the Good Samaritan exemplifies a neighbor who helps in calamity, far better than the distant brother-priest and Levite.
In 2 Samuel 9:1, David seeks to show kindness to Jonathan's family—fulfilling the proverb's command not to forsake a friend or their family.
In 1 Kings 2:7, David instructs Solomon to show kindness to Barzillai's sons—echoing the proverb's call to not forsake friends who helped.
In Job 2:11, Job's friends come to comfort him in disaster—illustrating the value of nearby friends the proverb recommends.
In Luke 10:33, the Samaritan acts as a true neighbor—fulfilling the proverb's point that a nearby neighbor is better than a distant brother.
In Obadiah 1:12-14, Edom is rebuked for gloating over Jacob's calamity — a betrayal that contrasts with the loyalty Proverbs advises.