3 John 1:9

I wrote unto the church: but Diotrephes, who loveth to have the preeminence among them, receiveth us not.

Cross-references

3 John 1:8 Contrast

3 John 1:8 urges hospitality to workers for the truth—the very action Diotrephes refuses to practice.

Luke 9:48 Contrast

Luke 9:48 says the greatest is the one who welcomes the least—directly countering Diotrephes' desire to be first.

Philippians 2:3-5 directly opposes Diotrephes: no selfish ambition, but humility and valuing others above self.

Romans 12:10 commands honoring others above yourself—the exact opposite of Diotrephes' self-exalting behavior.

In Luke 22:24-27, the disciples argue about who is greatest—mirroring Diotrephes' love of being first—while Jesus teaches servant leadership.

Mark 9:37 Contrast

Mark 9:37 teaches that welcoming Jesus' messengers welcomes Jesus—highlighting Diotrephes' refusal as a rejection of Christ.

Matthew 23:4-8 condemns Pharisees who love places of honor—mirroring Diotrephes' desire to be first among believers.

Matthew 20:20-28 records Jesus' teaching that greatness comes through servanthood—contrasting Diotrephes' self-seeking ambition.

Matthew 10:40-42 promises reward for welcoming Christ's messengers—the opposite of Diotrephes' rejection of John's representatives.

Luke 14:7 Parallel

In Luke 14:7, Jesus warns against choosing places of honor, directly paralleling Diotrephes' love of being first.

Proverbs 13:10 directly ties pride to strife — Diotrephes' desire to be first produces conflict in the church.

In Romans 12:16, Paul warns against haughtiness, opposite to Diotrephes' prideful love of preeminence.

Romans 12:3 Parallel

In Romans 12:3, Paul warns against thinking too highly, which Diotrephes violates by loving to be first.

Luke 22:26 Contrast

In Luke 22:26, Jesus teaches the greatest should serve, contrasting Diotrephes' desire to be first over others.

1 Peter 5:3 Contrast

In 1 Peter 5:3, elders are told not to domineer, contrasting Diotrephes' self-important behavior.

Luke 20:46 Parallel

In Luke 20:46, Jesus condemns scribes who love greetings and best seats, exactly the same sin as Diotrephes.

Luke 11:43 Parallel

Luke 11:43 condemns Pharisees who love prominent seats — Diotrephes' love of first place parallels this rebuke.

Numbers 16:10 shows Korah seeking the priesthood—typifying those like Diotrephes who rebel against God's appointed authority.

Luke 9:46 Parallel

Luke 9:46 shows disciples arguing about who is greatest — the same desire for preeminence seen in Diotrephes.

Mark 12:38 Parallel

Mark 12:38 warns against those seeking respectful greetings — Diotrephes' love of being first fits this pattern of pride.

Matthew 20:26 contrasts worldly ambition with servant leadership — Diotrephes exemplifies the ambition Jesus condemns.

Matthew 23:6 condemns loving places of honor — Diotrephes' love of preeminence matches this rebuke.

Titus 1:7-16 warns against arrogant, self-willed leaders—exactly the pattern Diotrephes embodies in refusing apostolic authority.

Proverbs 6:19 lists stirring up conflict as an abomination — Diotrephes' actions similarly disrupt the church community.

Acts 8:19 Parallel

In Acts 8:19, Simon seeks spiritual power for self-aggrandizement, echoing Diotrephes' love of preeminence.

Matthew 18:17 outlines church discipline for those who refuse to listen — Diotrephes refuses to acknowledge apostolic authority.

Mark 9:34 Parallel

Mark 9:34 shows disciples arguing about who is greatest—parallel to Diotrephes' love of being first, though disciples later corrected.