2 Samuel 3:31
And David said to Joab, and to all the people that were with him, Rend your clothes, and gird you with sackcloth, and mourn before Abner. And king David himself followed the bier.
Cross-reference
In 2 Samuel 1:11, David tears his clothes upon hearing of Saul's death—same mourning gesture, reinforcing his pattern of public grief.
In 2 Samuel 13:31, David himself tears his garments and lies on the ground—a parallel mourning response to a son's death.
In Genesis 37:34, Jacob tears his clothes and puts on sackcloth for Joseph—an identical mourning ritual to David's command here.
In 2 Kings 19:1, Hezekiah tears his clothes and puts on sackcloth in response to a threat—same combination of actions in a different crisis.
In Numbers 14:6, Joshua and Caleb tear their clothes in protest—a similar gesture of distress, though for rebellion rather than death.
In Joshua 7:6, Joshua tears his clothes in distress over Israel's defeat—a parallel action of humbling, but not a funeral.
In Judges 11:35, Jephthah tears his clothes upon seeing his daughter—another instance of tearing garments in grief.
In 1 Kings 20:31, sackcloth is worn as a sign of submission and plea for mercy, not mourning — same garment, different intent.
In 2 Kings 5:8, the king tears his clothes in distress over Naaman's request — same gesture of anguish as David's command here.
Isaiah 15:3 depicts Moabites wearing sackcloth and wailing in mourning — the same outward signs of grief David commands here.
Ecclesiastes 3:7 includes 'a time to tear' as part of life's seasons — this verse exemplifies that time of mourning.