Ecclesiastes 7:4
The heart of the wise is in the house of mourning; but the heart of fools is in the house of mirth.
Cross-reference
Daniel 5:1-4 depicts Belshazzar's feast of pleasure and idolatry — a vivid example of the fool's house of pleasure.
John 11:31-35 shows Jesus weeping at Lazarus's tomb — directly entering the house of mourning and sharing grief, the wise heart.
Luke 7:13 shows Jesus having compassion on the weeping widow — demonstrating a heart oriented toward mourning, the wise response.
Luke 7:12 describes a funeral procession for a widow's only son — a clear house of mourning that Jesus approaches.
Mark 6:21-29 shows Herod's feast of pleasure leading to John's beheading — a stark illustration of the fool's house of pleasure.
Mark 5:38-43 places Jesus at Jairus's house where people weep over a dead girl — he enters the house of mourning, embodying the wise heart.
Daniel 5:30 records the sudden death of the king after his pleasure feast — the ultimate end of the fool's pursuit.
1 Samuel 25:36 reveals Nabal feasting drunkenly — a fool's heart merry in the house of mirth, exactly illustrating the proverb's second half.
1 Kings 20:16 depicts Ben-hadad drinking himself drunk in booths — a fool's house of mirth before being routed by Israel.
2 Samuel 13:28 has Amnon's heart merry with wine while Absalom plots murder — a fool's merriment leading to downfall, illustrating the proverb.
Jeremiah 51:39 shows the fate of the foolish — feasting and drunkenness ending in death, illustrating the danger of pleasure.
Isaiah 53:4 portrays the suffering servant bearing our griefs — a specific embodiment of the wise heart that does not flee from sorrow.
1 Kings 1:41 describes Adonijah's feast ending in fear when news of Solomon's kingship arrives — another instance of pleasure turning to ruin.
1 Samuel 30:16 shows Amalekites eating, drinking, and dancing after plunder — a house of mirth that precedes their destruction, mirroring the fool's fate.
Jeremiah 51:57 repeats the judgment on Babylon's leaders through drunkenness and death, reinforcing the fate of those in the house of pleasure.
Hosea 7:5 describes princes sick from wine at a royal feast, exemplifying the fool's house of pleasure.
Nahum 1:10 compares enemies to drunkards who are consumed — echoing the fate of those who indulge in pleasure.