Proverbs 18:13
He that answereth a matter before he heareth it, it is folly and shame unto him.
Cross-reference
Proverbs 18:17 echoes the need for full hearing—only after both sides are heard can a fair judgment be made.
2 Samuel 16:4 shows David accepting Ziba's accusation without hearing Mephibosheth—a classic example of answering before hearing.
2 Samuel 19:24-30 reveals Mephibosheth's side, demonstrating the folly of the earlier hasty judgment.
In Esther 3:10-15, the king grants Haman's decree without investigating the accusations — a clear example of answering without listening.
In John 7:51, Nicodemus challenges the Pharisees with the same principle — hearing before condemning.
In Job 18:2, Bildad says 'Consider, then we will speak' — directly paralleling the proverb's call to listen first.
Job 32:4 shows Elihu waiting before speaking—the opposite of answering before listening, illustrating the wisdom Proverbs commends.
James 1:19 directly echoes: 'quick to listen, slow to speak'—a clear parallel to avoiding the folly of hasty answers.
In Job 29:16, Job investigates the stranger's cause — a positive example of listening before acting.
Acts 25:16 applies this principle legally: no one should be condemned without facing accusers and defending themselves.
Deuteronomy 13:14 commands diligent inquiry before acting, contrasting the folly of answering before hearing.
Acts 25:27 insists on knowing the charges before acting—another example of not answering without full information.
Acts 26:1 shows Agrippa permitting Paul to speak—giving him a hearing before any decision, reflecting wise listening.