2 Samuel 13:22

And Absalom spake unto his brother Amnon neither good nor bad: for Absalom hated Amnon, because he had forced his sister Tamar.

Cross-reference

In Leviticus 19:17, God commands not to hate in your heart but to rebuke your neighbor — Absalom does the opposite by silently hating Amnon.

In Leviticus 19:18, God forbids bearing grudges and commands loving your neighbor — Absalom does the opposite, hating and later killing Amnon.

Proverbs 10:18 describes hiding hatred with lying lips—Absalom's silent hatred is a direct example of concealed animosity.

Proverbs 26:24 says a hater dissembles with lips and stores deceit—Absalom's silence perfectly embodies this hidden malice.

Ecclesiastes 7:9 warns that anger resting in the bosom is foolish—Absalom's lingering hatred exemplifies this foolishness.

In Matthew 18:15, Jesus instructs confronting a brother who sins — a direct contrast to Absalom's silent hatred and eventual revenge.

Ephesians 4:26 commands not letting the sun go down on wrath—Absalom's prolonged hatred directly violates this principle.

Ephesians 4:31 commands putting away bitterness and anger—Absalom's hatred is the very malice that must be removed.

1 John 3:15 Parallel

1 John 3:15 equates hatred with murder—Absalom's hatred of Amnon is spiritually murder, foreshadowing his actual murder.

Genesis 34:5 shows Jacob holding his peace after Dinah's defilement—Absalom's similar silence after Tamar's rape mirrors this restrained response.

Genesis 49:7 curses fierce anger and cruel wrath—Absalom's hatred and revenge align with that curse, leading to his downfall.

Numbers 35:20 defines premeditated murder with hatred — Absalom's hatred here fits that legal category, foreshadowing his planned murder.

Proverbs 18:19 says a brother offended is hard to win — Absalom's deep offense here makes reconciliation impossible, leading to conflict.

Proverbs 24:29 warns against personal revenge — Absalom's silent hatred here sets him on that very path, contrasting with the warning.

Proverbs 26:26 says covered hatred will be exposed — Absalom's silent hatred here is later revealed when he murders Amnon.

In Genesis 31:24, God commands Laban not to speak 'either good or bad' to Jacob — the same phrase used here for Absalom's silence, but with divine restraint vs. human hatred.